As
one drives through the rural districts of Ontario the local cemetery is not
an infrequent sight. Oftener than not the appearance represents the extreme
of shabbiness and neglect. Fences, unpainted
and in various stages of growth of decay, plots overgrown with long grass,
weeds and bushed, and grave-stones falling or ready to fall are the most
conspicuous features. Though the
grounds are often well situated and the natural location beautiful, the
condition in which they are maintained is frequently a disgrace to the
community. A
correspondent refers to his subject in a personal letter to the editor from
which we make the following quotation, --
“Will you make the subject of the Neglected rural burying Ground the
theme for one of your seasonable talks to the plain people. This topic is one of my worries. Three generations of our family lied buried
out there, at ----- cemetery in Thurlow and the state of the
place is a crime and a disgrace. I go
there every chance I get and have sent enough money to buy the place twice
over, but I can accomplish nothing.
Can any appeal be made to rural sentiment to help? There are dozens of such neglected spots
and their condition is a sin and a shame.” We
do not see any reason why these district burial places should not be
established and maintained on business principles just the same as the
district school, the co-operative cheese-factory and the rural church.
Here is a plan that seems practical enough which was outlined by a
correspondent of one of our weekly farm journals, -----
This cemetery did not suffer from what might be termed wilful neglect,
but the nearest relatives being in other districts, and the farmers of the community
being busy and expected to look after the graves of their own departed loved
ones, did not give the attention needed to keep these graves in good
condition. Some, too, who were buried there had no relatives anywhere to care for their
graves. Many old-style,
high-top grave markers were toppling over and some were already lying on the
ground. Grass and weeds so completely
covered the grounds that the use of a lawn mower was impossible.
There seemed to be only one solution of the problem and that was to
place the care of these grounds upon a business basis. With this in views, a meeting was called, a
committee appointed and a board of trustees chosen. The board of trustees consisted of five
members, and privilege given for the choosing of a new member as one trustee
would go out of office or move away.
This board consisted of public-spirited men who were willing to give
some of their time gratis to the work of improving the old cemetery. The heavy labor, of course, was paid for,
but much time was donated by these generous men. The first act of the board was to procure
the names of all people interested in the work and those having relatives
buried there. These people were
solicited to give toward a fund that was to be put on interest and the income
of this used in keeping up the cemetery.
The fund itself was not to be used, only the income from it. No lots were sold but it was understood
that donations were welcomed, and by giving a donation to his fund, a lot
would be reserved for the donor. All
people solicited were favourable to his arrangement and many were very
liberal in their donation. Those
living at a distance were very willing to enter into a plan that would insure
the care of graves of their relatives, and of their own graves when they were
laid in the same resting place.
The cemetery was plotted and a careful record made of all lots, new
fences were put up, the graves all levelled and low places filled, so that
the grass could be mowed with a lawn mower.
A man was hired to care for the cemetery, mow the grass and trim
around trees and markers. The grass
was mowed once a week. An ordinance
was passed forbidding the planting of shrubs or flowers that would interfere
with the mower’s
work. Cut flowers were allowable. In a short time we had a beautifully kept
cemetery, plain but neat in every detail.
After all this work was done, a tent was purchased for use over the
open grave during the time of burial in cold and rainy weather. This was much
appreciated by
those who buried their friends in this cemetery.
Particularly here in this Bay of Quinte section the final resting
places of the mortal remains of our fathers and forefathers should be
hallowed ground. They it was who reserved
the British heritage inn this great Canadian northland and sacrificed
friends, possessions and comfortable homes in order that they might preserve
unstained their ideals of national honor.
The heroes and heroines who suffered slaved and starved in order that
they might establish homes for themselves and their children in what was then
an unknown and forbidding wilderness – to see their graves weed strewn and
headstones toppled over is indeed a “crime and a disgrace.” We
may show disrespect, but we cannot bring dishonor to the heroic dead. Their record of devotion, fealty and
sacrifice is immortal. But we can and
do dishonor ourselves when we permit their tombs to bear mute evidence to
every passer-by of
cold, brutal disregard and forgetfulness.
The God’s acre in which repose the remains of our immortal dead should
become shrines to recall noble memories and to inspire the oncoming
generations to emulate the splendid deeds of the heroic founders of this
great Canadian commonwealth. Our Forefathers Beneath those rugged elms, that
yew tree’s shade Where heaves the turf in many a
mouldering heap, Each in his narrow cell for
ever laid, The rude forefathers of the
hamlet sleep. The breezy call of
incense-breathing morn, The swallow twittering from the
straw-built shed, The cock’s shrill clarion, or
the echoing horn, No more shall rouse them from
their lowly bed. Oft did the harvest to their
sickle yield, Their furrow oft the stubborn glebe has broke; How jocund did they drive their
team afield! How bow’d
the woods beneath their sturdy stroke! Let not ambition mock their
useful toil, Their homely joys, and destiny
obscure, Nor grandeur hear with a
disdainful smile, The short and simple annals of
the Poor. The boast of heraldry, the pomp
of power, And all that beauty, all that
wealth e’er gave, Await alike th’
inevitable hour: -- The paths of glory lead but to
the grave. Nor you, ye Proud, impute to
these the fault If Memory o’er their tomb no
trophies raise, Where through the long-drawn
aisle and fretted vault The pealing anthem swells the
note of praise. Can storied win or animated
lust, Back to its mansion call the
fleeting breath? Can Honour’s voice provoke the
silent dust, Or Flattery soothe
the dull, cold ear of Death? Perhaps in this neglected spot
is laid Some heart once pregnant with
celestial fire, Hands, that the rod of empire
might have sway’d Or waked to ecstasy the diving
lyre: But Knowledge to their eyes her
ample page Rich with the spoils of time,
did ne’er unroll Chill Penury repress’d their noble rage And froze the genial current of
the soul Full many a gem of purest ray
serene The dark unfathom’d
caves of ocean bear; Full many a flower is born to
blush unseen, And waste its sweetness on the
desert air. Some village Hampden, that with
dauntless breast The little tyrant of his fields
withstood, Some mute, inglorious Milton
here may rest, Some Cromwell, guiltless of his
country’s blood. Th’ applause of list’ning senates to command, The threats of pain and ruin to
despise, To scatter plenty o’er a
smiling land, And read their history in a
nation’s eyes. ---------Thomas
Gray |