Not One of Them Smokes or Drinks In Attendance on a Recent Sunday at a Service in the Eastern Methodist Church, Napanee A Sketch of Each by Thomas W. Casey
On a recent Sunday morning in the Eastern Methodist church here, the
congregation noticed five large and healthy looking old gentlemen - five
brothers - sitting together in one pew. Some ladies remarked it is but seldom
one sees five such fine looking, hale, white-haired gentlemen. They were the
five McKim brothers, the sons of John McKim, formerly of Switzerville, and Lydia Switzer, his
wife, who were the early pioneers of "Second Town," when this
country was yet a wilderness. These five were all the sons that were ever
born to them, and all have lived to be venerable old men, with children and
children's children around them. Their united ages is now 395. They have
become pretty widely scattered, as most
large and old families are, and it occurred to our fellow townsman,
J.N. McKim, Esq., of Graham street, that it would
be a very pleasant thing to have a family re-union, and have all "the
boys" together once more before death may separate them. He accordingly
arranged it and all met at his comfortable home on Saturday, 9th, inst. It
was the first time in many years they had all
thus met together and it brought back to them the remembrances of
their boyhood days long since on the old farm at Switzerville, on which their
parents settled ninety years ago, where they always afterwards lived, where
they died and where these 'boys' were born, reared and educated, and from
which they scattered out to rear homes and raised families for themselves.
The youngest of these "boys" is now past his three-score and
ten, and the eldest past four-score, and yet all remain in good health, of
both body and mind, though all must begin to feel the burden of their years
and the active labors of busy lives. We understand that they have all been life long abstainers from alcoholic liquors and tobacco,
their brains have not been muddled with fiery stimulants and their nerves
have not been deranged with narcotics, and, therefore, they enjoy the
blessings of a green old age, such as few need ever expect to enjoy who go on
indulging in these needless and harmful practices. Such examples should not
be lost on our rising young men. Shakespeare gave this important lesson,
which seems to find a good illustration in the living examples we now refer
to: "Though
I look old, yet I am strong and lusty; For
in my youth I never did apply Hot
and rebellious liquors to my blood; Nor
did with unbashful forehead woo The
means of weakness and debility; Therefore,
my age is as a lusty winter, Frostly by kindly."
On Sunday morning they all attended Mr. McKim's
class in the church and then the public worship. They are all Methodists -
and official members of the church, we believe - and believe in the
old-fashioned Methodist class meetings. On Monday all went and had their
photograph group taken as a memento of possibly their last family re-union on
earth. Later on they took their leave of each other, with, no doubt, this
comfortable assurance that "Where
immortal spirits reign There
we all shall meet again." The brothers are:
Peter McKim, J.P. for the past few years a
well-known resident of Kingston, now eighty-four years of age. He married in
his young days Miss Charlotte Guess, daughter of William Guess, one of the
early pioneers of Kingston township. They settled in the village of Waterloo,
now Cataraqui, where their married years were all spent. They reared a family
of seven children, two sons and five daughters, most of whom are still
living, we believe. Mr. McKim was long a prominent
resident of Kingston township and filled well and faithful the duties of
township clerk and clerk of the division court. Later on he received a
government appointment in Kingston and moved into the city, where he now
lives. His remembrances of Kingston extend back to the time when the now
"Old Limestone City" was but quite a small village.
Hiram McKim, J.P. now police magistrate at
Sydenham, Frontenac county, aged eighty-two years. He is still active and
efficient in his duties. He married Sarah, a daughter of Christopher Switzer,
for years a well-known resident of Camden, near Centreville - a distant
relative of the Switzers of Ernesttown. They reared
a family of five sons, all of whom are still living. Mr. McKim
for many years carried on a successful business in leather tanning at Murvale, Frontenac county, where hemlock bark was long
abundant and cheap. He is a man of much intelligence and greatly respected
for his sound judgement and honesty of purpose. For years he was one of the
best known of the justices of the peace in Frontenac, and transacted a large
proportion of all the business in that line in his locality. He still enjoys
a strong body and a clear mind.
Miles McKim, Esq., Westbrook, aged eighty
years, married Miss Mary Clokey, of Kingston
township, and became a prosperous and successful farmer in that township.
They had one daughter, still living. Some years ago he retired from the farm,
with a competency and located in the village of Westbrook, where he is
spending the remainder of his days in quietness. He has always been held in
esteem by his neighbors, and still takes a lively interest in church and
temperance work.
J. Nelson McKim, Esq., our fellow townsman,
now seventy-five years of age, but still a good type of a healthy, vigorous
and active man. He married Miss Jane Shibley,
daughter of John Shibley, Esq., long a well-known
resident of Portland township. She is yet also in excellent health. They
lived on the old family homestead, near Switzerville, until a few years ago,
when he left the farm and came to reside in Napanee. The farm is now owned by
Henry Evans. They have reared a family of eight children, all of whom are
still living. The sons are Anson and Nelson, the well-known advertising
agents and publishers at Montreal, - and very successful business men - and
Walter Palmer, a farmer in Manitoba, and as well conducting a large furniture
and undertaking business at Deloraine. The
daughters are Adelaide, wife of George Shorey, of
North Fredericksburgh; Hannah, wife of James Rose, formerly of Switzerville,
but now a farmer in North Dakota; Cassie, wife of George Rose, also a native
of this locality but now in Manitoba; Frank, wife of A.R. Boyes,
formerly of Napanee, but now in charge of the Iowa industrial school, at
Eldora, Iowa; and Shibley, at home with her
parents. Mr. McKim has been a class leader in the
church for years, is a liberal in politics, as are all the members of the
family, and has been for sixty-seven years a pledged temperance man. He is
probably the oldest pledged temperance man in this locality, having signed at
Switzerville in 1830, where one of the first temperance societies in the
province was established. A large proportion of the men reared there in those times were members of that old
society.
Christopher McKim, Esq., of Cleveland, Ohio,
aged over seventy years, but still as active and sprightly as many of our
young men. Nearly fifty years ago he married Miss Mary Ann Aylsworth, of Fredericksburgh, daughter of the late John Aylsworth, Esq., and sister of our ex-mayor, J. Aylsworth. He was in business in Centreville for some
years and an officer of the Camden township council. Afterwards he located in
Napanee, where he was in business for some years. He moved to the city of
Cleveland about twenty-five years ago and has resided there ever since. They
have but one child, a daughter, the wife of our old friend and fellow
townsman, Charlton Mills, Esq., who also resides in Cleveland; but they all
retain a warm regard for their old home, neighbors and friends at Napanee. T.W. Casey |