On Saturday last the Court was occupied
from 11 o’clock in the forenoon until 7 in the evening, with the case of Sheldon
Hawley v. George Ham, which cause excited very intense interest. The Court was crowded to excess. We shall here endeavour to present our
readers with an outline of the facts and a brief statement of the trial. On the 23d of
April, 1823, the defendant, George Ham, married Esther Hawley, the
plaintiff’s daughter, and from the defendant’s attachment to her previous to
the marriage, every hope was entertained that they would live happily
together. It was, however, attempted
to be proved on the part of the prosecution, that within little more than
four months from the date of the marriage, the defendant had, in a variety of
ways, so ill treated his wife, by personal chastisement and other-wise, as to
render her life almost insupportable - and shortly after the birth of the
first and only child of Mrs. Ham, her father, under the impression that the
life of his daughter was in danger from the alleged brutality of the
defendant, took her home with him - where she has since resided, being a
period of upwards of twelve years. In the months of September and October
last, attempts had been made to obviate the differences between the parties -
and accordingly, Mrs. Ham had paid several visits to her husband - and, as
will appear by the evidence expressed her willingness to live with him - but
the terms on which the defendant proposed to receive her were (as alleged on
the part of the prosecution) too gross and revolting to be accepted. The action was brought in the form of an assumpsit, for maintenance, embracing two counts - which
were. 1st. For meat, drink, washing, lodging and other
necessaries, found and provided by said plaintiff at the special instance and
request of said defendant, for Esther Ham, wife of said defendant. 2d. For meat, drink &c. found and provided
for divers persons at the special instance, &C. To the damage of said Sheldon Hawley
of £1000. C. A. Hagerman, M.S. Bidwell, and Geo.
Macaulay, Esquires, Counsel for the Plaintiff. Henry H. Boulton,
Esq. Solicitor General, John Cartwright and Henry Cassady,
Esqrs. Counsel for defendant. The following Jury having been sworn, viz. Samuel M'Rea,
Patrick Black, John Hynes, Edward M'Fatridge,
Chester Hatch, Thomas Whitely, William Ashley, James Rorison,
Joseph Wood, John Duncan, James Hussey, William Lyal. Mr. Bidwell opened the case for the
prosecution in a very eloquent speech - related at some length the
circumstances that gave rise to the action - and went fully into the law
respecting the degree of ill treatment which might warrant the wife to
separate herself from her husband - and the legal obligation on the part of
that husband to maintain and support his wife. In alluding to the ill usage sustained by
the plaintiff’s daughter in the present instance, the learned Counsel pointed
out the difficulties that must necessarily exist in proving the different charges
of ill treatment - the principal circumstances having occurred among the
defendant’s relatives - and besides, he with much feeling observed, that no
man could show the front - no man, however base, and however callous he might
be, would lift his coward arm, in the presence of others against a helpless
woman - such deeds were done in the dark - but that he could prove where the
defendant had acknowledged to have beat his wife - could also prove the marks
upon her person - and that it was not to be supposed that any woman would
leave her husband and her child without some extraordinary cause. The learned Counsel concluded an able
address by expressing a hope that the verdict of the Jury would be such as would prove a salutary warning to
all husbands not ill treat their wives. Evidence for the
Prosecution
Isabel Hawley is sister to Mrs. Ham, and
daughter to the plaintiff - was present at the marriage of her sister with
defendant. Mrs. Ham, about three
months after her confinement, was on a visit at her father’s, was very ill
with a sore breast. Recollects
defendant coming for her to take her home;
he said, my lady, you must make ready and go home with me, and ride
behind me, shaking, at the same time, a whip over her head. Her father said, go and get a wagon and she
will go with you. Defendant again
said, and flourishing his whip over her, my lady you must get up and come
with me, and if you live to have another child by me, I shall discharge the
nurse on the third day, and make you do all the work of the house - and if
you do not get out of bed I will flog you out. This occurred about a year after the
marriage. Defendant went for a wagon,
and his wife returned home with him. -
About three years ago, witness met defendant accidentally, and spoke
to him of the separation, expressing a hope that they might yet live happily
together. Defendant said he would
never take his wife back - no, not even if she went on her knees to
him. On the 24th of September last,
Mrs. Ham, accompanied by witness, went to defendant’s house, in Bath - she
then offered to live with him. He
seemed surprised to see her, said he was not a better man than when she left
him; and says he, if you come to live
with me you must look wild. If
all be true, I have several children in the country, and I have a sweetheart
in Montreal, much prettier than you are.
His wife then said, “George, that is nothing to the purpose, I want to know whether you will live with
me or not?” Defendant said, “I am independent , king, lord of all! You must humble yourself very much before I
tell you whether I shall live with you or not. I have the whip in my own hand, and I shall
use it as I shall think proper. I will
not tell you whether I will live with you or not, until you go and make
friends with my mother.” On the 26th,
being two days thereafter, Mrs. Ham, accompanied by witness, went to
defendant’s father’s, and there made the most ample apology to her husband’s
mother. Defendant came in at the time,
and his wife told him that she had made friends with his mother, and asked
him whether they could not then make
up all differences, and live together.
Defendant observed “how do you know that they (alluding to his
parents) wish us to live together?” - His wife said, addressing her
father-in-law, “father Ham, have you any objection that we should live
together?” - No, says old Mr. Ham, you know that I always wished you to live
together. Defendant then said to his
wife, If you live with me, you must do all the work of my house - and you
must do it in style - and if you show a cross look, or a frown, you shall
walk. I shall dismiss all my servants,
except a man to wait on myself, for I am worthy. Mrs. Ham said, can’t we make it up now, and
I’ll go home with you - no, says he, I have business of greater importance to
attend to today. She says, I think
this is a business of great importance.
- You may think so, says he, but I don’t. Defendant said I have nothing more to say
on the subject. His wife then
observed, “George, I shall go to your house this evening” - which she did,
when he told her to go home, and give him a month to consider of the
matter. On this occasion, the
defendant wrote a letter to the plaintiff, which was read in the Court. On the 24th of October last,
being the day appointed by defendant for taking her back, his wife,
accompanied by witness, went to his house, when he (the defendant) informed
her of the terms on which he proposed that she should live with him - they
are as follows: “You shall be confined
in a room, and I shall neither eat, drink, nor lodge with you, and you shall
receive no visitors, nor meddle with any thing
belonging to me - for the instant you do, I shall show you the door and you
walk” - and admitting, continued he, that I should lodge with you, have you
any intention that another man shall sleep in the same room? His wife said, “this is not receiving me as
a wife nor treating me as such.”
Defendant further said “you must not be disappointed if 5 or 6 other
women may occasionally come into the house.”
Mrs. Ham said she could not remain on these conditions, and went
away. Witness believes that Mr. Ham is
in good circumstances. Mrs. Ham was
boarded, lodged, and clothed respectably by the plaintiff - Plaintiff kept
the child about nine months. Cross-examined by the Solicitor - Peter Perry and his mother
were present when defendant took away his wife in a wagon - Mrs. Ham came on
foot from defendant’s sister’s - she was not so ill when she came as when she
went away. On remonstrance, he went
for a wagon, and took her home - he flourished the whip over her head - appeared to be in a passion. He came [---] a violent passion, flourished
the whip over his wife and said - “come home with me my lady.” Witness did not know the cause of his
passion. Perry was in the same room
and could see what passed. Mrs. Ham
while in her father’s house, was well-behaved and industrious - she washed,
sewed, knitted and did the house work - did the same kind of work that witness
did - did nothing while unwell - was invited by her mother to come home until
she got better. Did not know what
reason defendant had for saying that he would not live with her, if she went
on her knees to him. Does not think
that defendant had any reason to be jealous of her. Did not recollect of a chairmaker
living at her father’s house. Saw Dr.
Baker at her father’s house - never saw any familiarities between Dr. Baker
and Mrs. Ham. Witness had no knowledge of her sister being fond of the chairmaker, nor of her wishing to go off with him.
Defendant, at the time of his marriage, was a shoemaker - sometimes wrought
at his trade, and sometimes worked on his father’s farm. All the Hams lived together and kept no servants. Understands that defendant made objections
to the child living with to the plaintiff.
Plaintiff and his family are of the Church of England. Witness is not aware that any improper
language was taught to the child. Is
not aware that defendant belongs to any religious community - is not aware
that her sister was to join the Methodists.
Witness’ father lives in Earnestown. - Mr. Ham lived in the same concession,
about three miles distant - is now
living at Bath. Recollects her father
bringing home Mrs. Ham. Witness is 23
years of age - was quite young at the time - recollects the circumstance and
that is all. Recollects that when she (witness) went home with Mrs. Ham in
October last, defendant proposed that his wife should be confibed
to a room, and not that she should have the use of one. Did not hear defendant intimate as his
motives for having another person sleeping in the same room - that he heard
that Mrs. Ham had formerly expressed a dread that he should murder her, and
that he, by that means, wished to prevent it. By Mr. Hagerman - Mrs. Ham always conducted
herself with propriety when at her father’s.
Recollects her refusing to go to several parties. By the Solicitor - Never knew Mrs. Ham, either
with or without witness, sitting up sparking at night with one William
Fairfield and Samuel Clark. John Simpson - Recollects in 1814 or 15,
having had a conversation with the defendant, coming from the Conscon Lake to the Carrying Place, asked him why he
separated from his wife. Defendant
said, that in consequence of some dispute between them he chastised her with
a riding whip and she left him.
Defendant observed, that he never intended to live with her again. Cross-examined by the Solicitor -This conversation took place
as above - witness lived at the Carrying Place at that time. Defendant also
lived at the Carrying Place at that time - he kept shop for Ebenezer Perry. Colin
Mackenzie Esq., is near
neighbour to the parties and knows them well - knows that Mrs. Ham has
been [---] ably maintained by the plaintiff. The defendant was a young man, doing well,
and had a farm of his own at the time of the separation. Here the evidence of the prosecution
closed and the Solicitor General, for the defence, craved a non-suit in
favour of his client on the following grounds: 1st, That there was
no evidence to support the action, it appearing that the plaintiff was the
wrong doer in the first instance and 2dly, That
nothing had appeared to warrant the separation. The learned gentleman read several
decisions applicable to the present case, and contended that there was no
proof of violence adduced; at least,
of such violence as at all to warrant Mrs. Ham to leave her husband - While
he admitted that one witness had sworn that the defendant had acknowledged to
him, having chastised his wife with a riding whip, yet he insisted that that
was not enough to authorise the plaintiff to take away his daughter; Fear and
terror of life, he said, must be proved, but he contended that no such terror
existed in the present case. His Lordship stated the law of the case -
and said, that to maintain an action of this kind it was necessary to prove
that the defendant’s conduct had been such as to render her departure necessary,
that the question now was, how far this had been the case. it was true, it appeared in evidence, that
a chastisement had taken place; but,
however, ungallant such conduct might be considered, yet a man had a right to
chastise his wife moderately - and to warrant her leaving her husband,
the chastisement must be such as to put her life in jeopardy. And were it not for the defendant’s letter
to the plaintiff, in which certainly consent was implied, he would have no
hesitation in granting him a non-suit. - His Lordship wished the public
distinctly to understand what the law was in such cases as the present - that
it was decidedly hostile to the practice of wives running away from their
husbands. - His Lordship could not
help expressing his disapprobation, in the strongest terms, of the officious
meddling of the parents of Mrs. Ham, in the present instance; and in exemplification of what the conduct
of a parent ought to be in such cases, His Lordship, with great good humour,
related the following Story It once upon a time, so happened, that a
person who had some dispute with his wife, gave her a moderate chastisement -
upon which the fair one ran home, and complained to her father. The father pretending to be in a desperate
rage at the husband said, - what! has the scoundrel really had the impudence
to beat my daughter - well, says he, I shall be revenged upon him, for I am
determined to beat his wife, which he did, and sent her home, and was no more
troubled with the quarrels of the parties - and Mr. Hawley should have done
the same. The Solicitor General now entered upon the
defence. He stated to the Jury that
the case was not of such consequence as they might have been led to suppose
from the opening speech. He with much eloquence and ability took a
comprehensive view of the case. He contrasted the serious and even awful
charges brought forward in the opening address with the evidence which had
just been adduced for the prosecution.
He observed, that if his client were such a beast - such an absolute
brute as they represented him, he (the Solicitor) would not stand there to
defend him. The reverse, however, he was happy to say, was the case, and he
could now tell the Jury that Mr. Ham was a respectable man - that from a poor
shoemaker and labourer as they would make him, he by his own merit and good
conduct raised himself to wealth and respectability. Were he such a monster
as they would make him to be - yes, if he kept five or six women in Bath - if
he really kept a Seraglio like the Grand Turk, as they alleged, how was it
that he is now associated with and respected by his neighbours. He contended that his client, Mr. Ham, was
at that moment fully as respectable as Mr. Hawley or any of his connections -
and he would say further, if his client were such an abandoned monster as
they represented him, why has he been so long on the list of
magistrates. Was there an instance, he
would ask, of a brother magistrate complaining of him - no, gentlemen, he has
always conducted himself with decency and propriety. and how, gentlemen, I would again ask, has
it come about that in the very face of the slanders and the calumnies of his
enemies, this very Mr. Ham has been on one occasion elected by his neighbours
to represent them in Parliament. The learned gentleman in going into the
merits of the case, stated that he could prove to the satisfaction of the
Court and Jury, that the conduct of
the plaintiff, Mr. Hawley, was most improper.
He could prove that when he (Mr. Hawley) came for his daughter, he
said to the defendant, “You d---d rascal, you have ill-used my daughter - I
was able to support her before she married you, and I am so yet.” This was a sample of the conduct of this
mild, immaculate Clerk of the Church.
The learned gentleman put the Jury on their guard against the
eloquence and ingenuity of the opposite Counsel. Complimented Mr. Bidwell’s address - it had
one material fault however - it was not true. Towards the close of a very lengthy and
very eloquent speech, the learned gentleman disputed the validity of the
marriage between the parties. The
evidence on this point will appear below. For the Defence Jemimah Perry was present when Mr. Ham took
away his wife from plaintiff’s house; did not see Mr. Ham flourish a whip or
say any thing angry; he had a very small whip in his hand, but
did not shake it over his wife; Mrs.
Ham made no objection to go home. Mr.
Hawley proposed to Mr. Ham to get a wagon, which was done, and they went home
quietly. Witness saw old Mrs. Hawley shaking her fist under Mr. Ham’s nose -
old Mrs. Hawley was in a fret - supposes it was because her daughter was
going home - recollected Mrs. Hawley saying that she wished her daughter was
in her tomb before she married the defendant. Peter Perry went to the house of Mr.
Hawley with Mr. Ham. Defendant asked his wife to go home with him. Mr. Hawley wished him to go for a wagon -
saw nothing improper on the part of Mr. Ham.
When defendant first went into the house, and after the usual
salutations, defendant asked the plaintiff if he owed him anything on account
of his wife, and was answered in the negative - asked Mrs. Hawley the same
question, and was also answered in the negative. Did not see Ham shake a whip
over his wife - if he had done so must have seen it. Mary Perry was present when Mr. Hawley
took away his daughter from defendant, he told his daughter she must go with
him, as he would not allow her to live any longer with her husband; she did not wish to go, but her father insisted.
He ordered her to take down the curtains from her bed; Mrs. Ham sat down on a chair and
cried; but old Mrs. Hawley took away
the curtains; thought the conduct of
the plaintiff and his wife very outrageous.
Witness is sister to the defendant;
lived in the same house with defendant and his wife while they were
together, and never saw defendant strike her.
Mrs. Ham told witness about six years ago, that her husband never
struck her; thinks that if Mr. Hawley and his wife had kept away, there would
have been nothing wrong, and they would never have been separated. John Ham thinks that the difficulty had originated
between George Ham and his mother-in-law;
thought so from certain reports that she had been circulating; for instance, she insinuated at one time,
that witness had treated his wife harshly. Henry Ham was present in October last
when Mrs. Ham came home. Defendant
said so you are come back to live with me.
You think that I am a better man now than I was before, but you are mistaken. Defendant said he would let her have the
best room in the house, and if that was not good enough, he would build
another; he would not cohabit with
her; she might go out and in as she
liked; but he would be the proper
judge of what visitors should come to his house. John Ham is father to the defendant; his son George Ham, is about 33 years of
age, was christened by the Rev. Mr. Langhorn;
was married in 1813 by the Rev. Rob. Mcdowal. He & his wife lived happily together
for the 1st year; next year
Hawley took away his daughter. Job Aylesworth and Elisha Shorey
saw Hawley the day he took away his daughter;
met them on the road talking to one of the neighbours; heard Hawley say I have taken away my
daughter; I supported her before, and
can do it again; she shall not live
with him again. Rev. Robert Mcdowall identified the certificate of
marriage between George Ham and Esther Hawley; witness is a Presbyterian of
the reformed Dutch Church. By the solicitor.
Were you ordained by a Bishop. Witness. We are all Bishops. His
Lordship observed, that if witness had been ordained by a Bishop, he could
not be a Presbyterian. Defendant’s parents were communicants in his church,
and George Ham, the defendant, was a regular attendant, but never communicated. Point reserved for the Court above upon the
legality of the marriage as above celebrated. Here the defence closed. Mr. Hagerman now rose in behalf of the
plaintiff; and in one of those bursts of eloquence peculiar to himself,
carried along with him, if not the conviction, at least, the feeling, of his
hearers. It is always with pleasure we
listen to the speeches of this gentleman, especially in cases like the
present, calculated to create strong excitement. We have heard those who could, perhaps,
reason more closely than Mr. Hagerman, but very few indeed whose eloquence,
in our estimation, is more powerful. At the commencement of his speech, the
learned gentleman adverted to the high eulogium which the learned Solicitor
had passed on the character of the defendant;
he, however, contended that there were many then present who knew well
to the contrary, and even a stronger proof of the absolute baseness and
depravity of the mind of that individual could not be adduced, than the scandalous
and most damnable plea now set up by him.
What gentlemen of the Jury, says the learned counsel, does he attempt
to prove - it is gentlemen, that the wife of his bosom is a prostitute, and
his child a bastard. The learned gentleman went at great length
into the law and facts of the case. He observed that the greater part of the
witnesses were Ham’s near relatives; but he would put Miss Hawley’s testimony
against the whole mass of evidence brought against him. It was always with
regret that he found himself compelled to differ in opinion with the
bench. In the present instance,
notwithstanding what had fallen from His Lordship to the contrary, he would
deny, that at the present day, a man was at liberty to chastise his wife -
that was the law at former times - but the day, he was happy to say, was not
too far advanced to admit such doctrines. Gentlemen (he continued) what inference
are you to draw from the modest request of the defendant to his wife, that
she would submit to having another man sleep in the same room with her? Is there any man who now hears me, whose
blood does not boil within him at such a proposal - whose soul does not
revolt at the cold-blooded brutality of this bad man? He was to derive either of two advantages
from this proposition - if she rejected it, (as she did, with silent, but
expressive indignation) he then would make it appear, that it was entirely
her own fault if she did not live with him.
If she submitted, what then would follow? Gentlemen, you have perhaps heard of an
atrocious circumstance which occurred near the Napanee Mills some time
since. John Clark (I suppose you all
know him) induced an unfortunate female to consent to marry a man then living
at his house; the worthy John
proceeded to join the parties in holy wedlock & the day, with its
festivities being over, the happy couple retired to bed. As was concerted before, between the
bridegroom & Clark, the former, whenever his unfortunate dupe fell
asleep, got up, & left the room for a few minutes and Clark took
possession of the bed. The bridegroom
immediately returned, and affected to discover that his newly married wife
was false to his bed, upon which, the marriage was immediately declared void. Gentlemen, do you think that Mr. Ham, with
the knowledge of a stratagem, so suited to his ideas of right & wrong,
would let so good an opportunity escape him, as his wife’s submission to his
proposal would give him, to red himself of her forever. Towards the close of his speech, the
learned gentleman having been frequently interrupted by the Solicitor, as to
the indecorum of some of his expressions, begged pardon of the Court &
Jury, if, in the heat of speaking, he had transgressed the bounds of
decency; he denied, however, that he
did; observed, that the defendant, by
his infamous conduct, had brought it all upon himself. But, my lord, continued he, against the
continued interruptions of others I put myself, under the protection of the
court. I stand her, my lord, as a
Barrister and a Gentleman. In the
former capacity, the Court will protect me, and in the latter, I shall
protect myself. His Lordship, after telling the Jury to
divest their minds of the declamatory address which had just been made,
entered into a dispassionate re-capitulation of the evidence, stated that he
would at once have granted a non suit, but for the defendant’s letter already
alluded to. He was of opinion, however, that that letter ought not now to
make any difference. He was also of
opinion, that not a farthing of damages ought to be given, at least,
excepting for one month, and even was not certain as to that month. His Lordship then left the case with the
Jury, who, after retiring for a short time, returned a verdict for the
plaintiff - damages [---]. |